Time Flies!

The last few months have seen a lot of transitions for my
family. Back in May, we celebrated my daughter’s high school graduation. In
August we took her to college and said goodbye. Just a few days after we got
home, Benny started high school.

As I sit here in my now much-more-quiet house, I realize in
four short years, Benny will be the one graduating from high school and getting
ready to move out. In “real life” four years goes by in a flash, but in “diabetes
life” four years can seem like an eternity. You know why, right? That’s the
time we associate with being locked in an insulin pump warranty.

Benny started on an insulin pump when he was two, about six months after diagnosis. I remember hearing about big changes coming to that pump system and being very frustrated that we had to wait. We were actually pretty lucky to be on the tail end of our four year warranty, but it took more than a year to wait it out, process everything and get the new system mailed to us. That’s one reason why we switched to the t:slim X2 pump from Tandem Diabetes Care. It’s the only pump currently offering remote software updates. I loved the idea of getting new features as soon as they were available, and easily from home.

The timing worked out so that we did our first update about
a month after we received our t:slim X2 pump in 2017. That’s when Tandem
integrated the Dexcom G5 Mobile CGM. I plugged Benny’s pump into my computer,
did the software download and handed it back to him; it took less than 15
minutes.  Same thing with our Basal-IQ technology
update a year later. Once we had the prescription from Benny’s doctor, it was a
quick online training session, a download to the pump and we were finished. Even
better, both updates were free to us, as in-warranty customers.

I was thrilled to hear that Tandem is continuing that free
service; diabetes is expensive enough! All software updates released through
2020 are free to in-warranty t:slim X2 users in the United States.1

A lot can change in four years. In 2015, Lea was
14-years-old and just starting high school. Now she can drive and she can vote
and she’s starting the newest adventure of her life 700 miles away. Four years
ago, Benny was in fifth grade and was the shortest one in our family. Now he’s
almost as tall as my 6’1” husband! I’m grateful to be with a pump company that
can keep up with us.

As I look ahead, in 2023 Benny will be 18 and probably off
on his own college adventure. I’d love to slow things down, but that’s not how
it works. Honestly? I can’t wait to see what happens next!

Four years ago. Look how little Benny is!
Lea and Benny this year

Stacey Simms was compensated by Tandem Diabetes Care for
her contribution on this topic. However, she created the content, and it is
based on her personal knowledge, experiences, and observations.

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Steel Magnolias is Back? Sigh.

When my son was diagnosed with type 1 diabetes just before he turned two, I had a lot of thoughts about his future. Getting pregnant wasn’t among them. But as we shared the news and explained type 1, a few friends said, “At least he won’t end up like that poor girl in Steel Magnolias.”


It’s hard to remember but through all the great dialogue and amazing women in the movie, the center piece of Steel Magnolias, and the impetus of that wonderful “laughter through tears” line, is that the Julie Roberts character dies from complications of type 1 diabetes. “Drink the juice, Shelby” is her mother desperately treating a dangerous low blood sugar.

I love Steel Magnolias. I had a huge crush on Tom Skerrit back in the day (omg, I know) and I cry and laugh every time I watch it. But I know people in the diabetes community who get angry, who won’t ever watch it again.

It is a true story. Robert Harling wrote the play after his sister died in 1985. It can still happen; fortunately, it’s not the story of most women today with T1D who want children. The problem? For the most part, Steel Magnolias is still the only story out there.

This week, as the movie returns to theaters to mark it’s 30 year anniversary, I’m reissuing an episode we first put out when my local community theater performed the play. My guests are all moms who live with type 1: Kerri Sparling, author of Six Until Me & “Balancing Diabetes.” Melissa Lee, Director of Community Relations for Bigfoot Biomedical & Kyrra Richards, founder & Creative Director of Myabetic.

It’s a wonderful round table – they all have strong reactions to the story, but they also have terrific advice for women with diabetes. We get away from Steel Magnolias a lot (cheeseburgers come up for some reason?) and they share real-life pregnancy and T1D stories and experiences from which we can all learn.

Melissa Lee put her finger on it late in our discussion when she pointed out that Shelby had no community. She had no one to truly listen and understand, to say yes and to help her find a way. I hope hearing this round table helps you find your “yes.”

Listen here, at diabetes-connections.com or on any podcast app

Avengers: Endgame

The Marvel Cinematic Universe has been a huge, fun part of my family’s life. We didn’t let the kids watch the early stuff – Benny was only 4 when Phase One began – but they’ve made up for that lost time. Lea’s favorite is definitely Iron Man. I stan the big Dorito himself, Captain America. But Slade and Benny are Hulk fans. Slade because of the 1970s TV show (he watched with his mom) and Benny because of diabetes.

Hulk Smash Inset!

When B was little, he didn’t understand why his high blood sugars would make him feel cranky. It’s hard for toddlers to express when they feel bad even without diabetes. My non-D daughter never said, “I have an ear infection” when she was in pre-school. She just got super-cranky. Same thing with Benny and high blood sugar. But as he got just a little older, maybe ages 5-6, we were able to start working on a few strategies to help. One of the best involved the Hulk.

We told Benny that he was a lot like the Hulk when his blood sugar was high and he felt angry and mean. But unlike Dr. Bruce Banner, he could learn to control the big green guy.

We started by having him recognize that he was high – of course we’d test first – and then he’d work on removing himself from the situation. He could go to his room and beat up a stuffed animal or yell into a pillow. He could sit quietly with me and color and drink water and be mad. But he couldn’t “release the Hulk” on other people.

It wasn’t perfect but it helped him process what was going on. And gradually he learned. As a teenage boy, he still has outbursts (thank you testosterone plus diabetes) and he’s still improving. But he’s got someone (something?) to whom he can relate. That’s why the Hulk, who had always been my husband’s favorite, is now also Benny’s.

More on Marvel & diabetes in this week’s podcast (along with great info on how to keep your insulin cool without power or a fridge)

#DPodcastWeek 2019

Here we go! Diabetes Podcast Week is here!

If you already enjoy listening to one show about diabetes, I hope you’ll give another one a try. If you’ve never heard a podcast, this is a great chance to jump in.

All this week (February 10-16th 2019) the shows listed below are joining together to tell our listeners about the Spare a Rose campaign, to benefit Life for a Child. We’ll also have some fun with cross promotion.

The list below will take you to the episodes specifically published during #DPodcastWeek (the links will be updated as the episodes are released). Different shows are hosted on different platforms so the players here may look different from one another, but they should all play right here in this post. Any show without a player has a clickable link to the #DPodcastWeek episode.

To visit the homepages of the shows and and find other episodes, click here or search on your favorite podcast player.

#DPodcastWeek 2019 episodes

Behind the Betes

Listen to “Episode 4: Going Home” on Spreaker.





Divabetic – Self-Acceptance & Diabetes with Musical Inspiration From Dolly Parton

Game Plan T1D


Pancreas Pals

Real Life Diabetes: An Inspiration to the T1D Community Lauren Bongiorno



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